Valdosta Daily Times

Sandy Sanders

December 5, 2010

Forgiveness, redemption go together

VALDOSTA — The news story on Friday read: “WASHINGTON — The House of Representatives voted overwhelmingly Thursday to censure once-powerful New York Rep. Charles Rangel for multiple ethical misdeeds — the first time in nearly three decades that House members have publicly rebuked a colleague.

“The 333-79 vote dealt Rangel the most devastating blow of a congressional career spanning 40 years.

“Rangel, 80, stood silently in the front of the chamber as House Speaker Nancy Pelosi somberly read the censure resolution. But he fought the punishment to the end, insisting he was not corrupt and never sought to enrich himself.

“At a news conference after the vote, a defiant Rangel said the censure action was motivated by politics and would not diminish his stature. ‘Charlie Rangel is Charlie Rangel,’ he said. ‘I wasn’t always a chairman.’”

No apology here. Charlie Rangel is still Charlie Rangel and that might just be the problem.

Recently, I had a conversation centering on the growing attitude that literally everything is somehow the fault of someone else. While we were not specifically talking about Charlie Rangel, he is an example of this societal disease spreading throughout our country. President Harry Truman said, “The buck stops here!” He knew for buck-passing to stop someone must accept responsibility.

When was the last time you had someone tell you they were sorry for something they did or said about you? When was the last time you said, “I’m sorry” to someone else? Heard or read where a politician or celebrity said a particular happening was his or her fault? When did you tell your child he or she was to blame for a bad grade and not the teacher?

When was the last time        you heard a student accept responsibility for an incident at school?

A less than stellar sport season is always the coach’s fault but we are ready give a free pass to a star player for a DUI or sexual misconduct.

In the Bible there must first be forgiveness to have redemption.

Fifty years ago, young Opie learned this from his father Sheriff Andy Taylor.

One of the lessons I read recently where a fan wrote: “My favorite episode is the one where Opie accidentally wounds the baby bird and then feels terrible about it. Andy didn’t overreact, but he also didn’t protect him from feeling the guilt and burden of his actions. So Opie takes it upon himself to nurse the baby bird back to health. Of course he has enormous pride in his accomplishment when he sets the rehabilitated bird free. The last scene he remarks to Andy that the cage seems pretty empty now, but Andy refocused him by talking about how full the trees were.”

A beautiful lesson in parenting; obviously there are many missed opportunities in today’s homes.

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